Happy Yester-day-for-you Birthday!

Awww, thanks sweetie! :)


jana!! happy birthday to you (and i hope this isn't already tomorrow in your time zone)! you're one of the most special, loving, ~lovable people i've met on tumblr, and i'm so glad that we've gotten to know each other! i wish we were able to talk as often as we used to but i do love having time with you whenever i can. hope it's a great day and great year! i love you! <3

Mari, I just woke up to this! Thanks so much for the greetings, and it’s okay, it’s still my birthday I think in your time zone. I’m glad I’ve gotten to know you, and you totally are one of the best people I’ve met here, and anywhere else. Thanks so much!


Anonymous:
Oh okay. Yeah, it wouldn't be wise to be gay and be protestant/evangelical so I understand what you mean, and I'm catholic christian. I assume people who are p/e christians and are gay would turn to catholic since that makes most sense, but I don't know anyone like that so I can't really say.

i’ve never met anyone like that either.

again, i hope i made my position a little bit clearer?


#I always thought that James and Amber were really good friends #and i will hold on to it forever #also because spike and tara are forever bestfriends in my head // A MILLION TIMES YES TO IT ALL.

YES.


Evil asks - F, G, U,

Oooh, yay!

F:  If you could take on the exact body and form of anyone else on Earth, who would it be?

Hmm, this is a little difficult, but I would probably take the form of Maggie Lawson. Why? Because she’s my ultimate female crush, and I don’t know why, but I’d kill to be as awesome as her.

G: Would you rather burn or freeze to death?

This is actually a really hard question to answer. I got burnt when I was young, head to know fire and all that hooplah. So I’m probably not going to want that to happen to me ever again. However, freezing to death? One of my greatest phobias is being alone in a very cold room. It came from my first stay at a hospital and because of that I could never really tolerate being very cold for long periods of time… I would have to freezing to death though, because it seems to be less painful?

U: If you were old enough and not in a situation where it would be inappropriate, would you sleep with one of your (past) school teachers/professors?

Omg, yes. I’ve always had the biggest crush on my PE teacher way back when in highschool. And if it was not inappropriate, and if there was absolutely nothing wrong with it? Then the answer would be yes.


Anonymous:
if you already like teen wolf after one episode you're gonna LOVE it because it gets sooooooooooooooooooooooo much better.

THAT SOUNDS AWESOME ANON.

So far I’m enjoying Stiles. I’m easy to please and Stiles pleases me, hehehe. Also Scott is adorable.


Anonymous:
do you still doing the meet the psych fandom things?:)

Hmmm, well I actually did it before the premiere for season 6, and I was thinking of something else to do for the premiere for season 7.

Any suggestions?


Anonymous:
I never said that your parents every hit you on the face, I was giving it as an example...

Sorry :(

I was just clarifying that it never happened to me. Hence I didn’t expand on that. I expanded on the belt and the hanger thing.


Anonymous:
I am not implying that spanking is abuse. Will I ever spank my children? Probably not. But do I think spanking is abuse? No. But hitting a child with a belt, or a hanger, or a hand across the face IS.

Never got slapped by my parents, sorry, just for clarification.

See again, you’re putting your definitions of abuse on my cultural upbringing again. Belts and hangers are fine for me because they’re not connected to my parents. They’re instruments of discipline.

I don’t have to be scared that my parents would suddenly hurt me out the blue because they never did. I looked to the belt/hanger as punishment because it would only appear when I’ve done something wrong.

Again, let me clarify, it isn’t done EVERYTIME I did something wrong. Because that would be useless and it wouldn’t make any sense. But when I did something really bad, then that would happen.

And it was on the bum, never on our faces.


Anonymous:
dif anon. an abuser doesn't necessarily get 'twisted enjoyment' out of abusing someone... just throwing that out there...

Oops, sorry!

Thanks for the clarification.

:)


Anonymous:
you might have, but a lot kids don't. I never understood how telling a kid 'You've done something wrong, now we're going to physically abuse you" is EVER alright.

It depends on how you were raised as a kid.

Also, it also depends a lot on culture. In the Philippines, it’s absolutely normal to get punished. By calling it as abuse you’re mislabeling as if parents get some sort of twisted enjoyment out of it. That was not the point.

The point for me, and I completely agree with it, is that as kids, we needed to realize that all of our actions have consequences. Everything we do had leads to something whether good or bad.

It’s effective for me, it was effective for my brother, it’s also effective for most of the Filipinos that I’ve met and grew up with. So, I don’t understand the need for people to label my parents as physical abusers because, um… no they’re not.

Discipline is one thing, abuse is another.


Anonymous:
whoa like hit hit or like, spanked?

Hmm, Dad would use a belt (only before highschool) and Mom would maybe use her hands and sometimes a hanger.

It’s not as bad as it sounds. They didn’t do it angrily, they would always sit us down first, and talk about what we did wrong and why were getting hit about it.

And it’s usually really bad things…

Hahaha, I just don’t understand the never hit your kids principle when it comes to raising your kids. My brother and I grew up just fine, you know?


Anonymous:
You are so talented.


Anonymous:
Remember when your mom bought all that shampoo for sandy blonde hair? Did you guys ever get conditioner?

What?


Anonymous:
what does phsysics mean? also do you make $ with your blog using peepspayerDOTcom?

You know I really was excited to tell you what phsysice meant anon, but noooo! You don’t really care! You don’t really wanna know! You hurt me with your indifference to whether you knew the meaning of phsysics or not!